This is definitely not a decision that either of us made lightly, because living together is a very significant step in our relationship. Neither of us has ever lived with a significant other before, so we have thought long and hard about this over the course of our relationship.
I am so overwhelmingly excited to be able to wake up and fall asleep beside my best friend and love of my life every day, be there when the other gets home to compare notes on our days, not have to live out of a suitcase when shuttling back and forth between each other's places, and not have to say goodbye at the end of the night. I can't wait to live in a place that's ours, cook in our kitchen, lounge on our couch, spend our summer afternoons relaxing by our pool.
Sure, there are parts of this next step that I'm nervous about, the primary one being the search process. I have looked at a few apartments already {and have shortlisted a few}, and we'll be going to look at some others this weekend. I think I will feel less unsettled when I actually know for sure where we'll be living. And part of me worries that my extreme cleanliness and abundance of home cooking will be too much for Dan.
You know what, though? I'm so excited to embark on this adventure together, whatever joys and challenges it may bring!
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